Blaming

Nobody likes…

…to be wrong

…to be in trouble

…to face negative consequences

When bad stuff happens, you can choose to

FACE THE CONSEQUENCESSHIFT THE BLAME
Results could be painful and uncomfortable

BUT

Temporary

AND
People will respect you more

AND

You will be smarter after learning the lesson

AND

You keep your power
You might get out of it

BUT

The person you blamed and others around you will lose respect for you

AND

You won’t learn the important lesson

AND

You’re telling people you’re not accountable and you lose some power